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Posted 23 February 2004 - 08:07 PM

Many people with bad lungs know that one day can be so different from the next. What do you do about having a really bad breathing day? Is there something that helps you feel better or do better on those days?
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Posted 24 February 2004 - 03:36 PM

Hi!! Sometimes one just never knows what it may be like from one day to the next. My worst days are after a major function day, like going to town to run a few errands. My game plan is to reserve the next day or two for loafing. On a day that there seems to be no good reason for a bad day, sometimes doing a bit of exercising can help to get the blood flowing, thus feeling a lot better. Doesn't mean necessarily a lot, but some hand weights, a little walking, just to get out of the chair and move can really help.

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Posted 25 June 2007 - 09:26 AM

 huffpuff, on Feb 24 2004, 04:36 PM, said:

Hi!! Sometimes one just never knows what it may be like from one day to the next. My worst days are after a major function day, like going to town to run a few errands. My game plan is to reserve the next day or two for loafing. On a day that there seems to be no good reason for a bad day, sometimes doing a bit of exercising can help to get the blood flowing, thus feeling a lot better. Doesn't mean necessarily a lot, but some hand weights, a little walking, just to get out of the chair and move can really help.

Yours In Better Breathing,
Patrick In So. OR

"Be not forgetful to entertain strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unaware" Hebrews 13:2

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Posted 25 June 2007 - 09:30 AM

 huffpuff, on Feb 24 2004, 04:36 PM, said:

Hi!! Sometimes one just never knows what it may be like from one day to the next. My worst days are after a major function day, like going to town to run a few errands. My game plan is to reserve the next day or two for loafing. On a day that there seems to be no good reason for a bad day, sometimes doing a bit of exercising can help to get the blood flowing, thus feeling a lot better. Doesn't mean necessarily a lot, but some hand weights, a little walking, just to get out of the chair and move can really help.

Yours In Better Breathing,
Patrick In So. OR

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Posted 25 June 2007 - 12:26 PM

When I'm having a really bad day I stop thinking about what I should be doing and concentrate on my present situation. I try to relax as much as possible. I may listen to soothing music, watch a comedy on TV or play a favorite movie on the VCR. I may lift a few weights and do some leg exercises while sitting but most of all I try to stay calm because I know from experience that if I get upset or excited my breathing will become worse.

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Posted 25 June 2007 - 02:34 PM

I agree Tippy,

I think one of the most important things for me is to try and remain
calm and not get excited about it. If not, I find myself gasping for
air and that affects everyone around me.

Sitting quietly and concentrating on my breathing affords me the opportunity
to not only get my breathing under control but to keep anxiety at bay.

It sometimes means that the task at hand has to wait but that's OK. It's
not going any where.

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Posted 25 June 2007 - 02:46 PM

This topic has a date of 3 years ago. How did that get in here?

I, for one, feel real pressure knowing there is a task at hand waiting for me to catch my breath. Anyone else feel that pressure? Not a good thing.

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Posted 25 June 2007 - 02:53 PM

Eyejustam, thanks so much for bringing up this post from 2004. I haven't been here that long, so I've missed a lot of good posts that I'll never possibly catch up on.

Huffpuff, you said back then that your worst days are after major function days. I find that true with me also, especially when I've ignored pacing myself. I THINK I'm starting to learn to rest when I should and move when I should, but I'm a slow learner. :P I don't know if you're still around this board, Huffpuff, but isn't it amazing how your post can still resonate within one's feelings even though it's over 3 years ago that you wrote it?! :P

Tippy, I'm SO GLAD to see your posts again! Thanks for your sound advice. You, too, Tim. I often focus too much on what I'm not getting done than on the present situation of SOB. Everything takes so much longer, and I see the dust bunnies, etc., and I let it eat at me that I can't keep up. Then my mind feels overwhelmed and I can't relax and I just get more SOB! ;)

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Posted 25 June 2007 - 02:56 PM

Hi Serra,

You must have posted while I was still writing. :P Yes, I feel that pressure also as you'll see from my post. You're so right. It's definitely not a good thing. Sounds like we both need to concentrate on calming ourselves. ;)

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 02:44 PM

When I have a bad breathing day, I use visualizing and think of the mountains in North Carolina and I also went to Florida the ocean and the beautiful sunset on the ocean! If its really bad, then I concentrate on my purslip breathing and my Pulmo Dr said I could set my notch up one on my regulator until I settle down then go back to my normal setting. I don't want to get to used to that though.

I just have to remember not to rush, and that is hard when we are all used to hurrying to get certain jobs done,and used to being really active people! :P

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 06:13 PM

Pacing is so important, isn't it! It's a tough one to be consistent with too. Thanks, Bev.

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Posted 20 July 2008 - 11:23 AM

 Eileen/MA, on Jun 25 2008, 07:13 PM, said:

Pacing is so important, isn't it! It's a tough one to be consistent with too. Thanks, Bev.
I can always tell when it's a "Bad Air Day " my breathing is labored, I start sweating, so I try to calm my self and think pleasant thoughts and do "PLB" that really does helpl a lot, also sit if you can and try to relax. Lots of good replies on this post. Thanks, Jane for asking. :o

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Posted 23 February 2009 - 03:57 PM

 SanEll, on Jul 20 2008, 11:23 AM, said:

I can always tell when it's a "Bad Air Day " my breathing is labored, I start sweating, so I try to calm my self and think pleasant thoughts and do "PLB" that really does helpl a lot, also sit if you can and try to relax. Lots of good replies on this post. Thanks, Jane for asking. :)

Breathe Easy,

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That's one of the things I find discouraging--feeling almost great one day, lousy the next. Nightime is the worst for me, it seems I can't sleep well, start worrying about my breathing because you can't plb while sleeping. Then I'm really tired the next day, and feel hopeless.

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Posted 23 February 2009 - 04:46 PM

Helen,
COPD has a lot of highs and lows but those lows can be just plain frustrating and if you add in sleeplessness you just compound the problems. I am learning to deal with those issues and for me feeling better includes being more active, being around other people when I can, and I use medication if I feel like I need help pulling myself back up. My Doc has been really great about helping me get beyond these low spots and believe me he has seen me at my worst. All Docs are different but they all know that COPD can get you down at times and they should be pleased if you are open and come to them for support. Also there is BBLW where we will all try to help you deal with different situations.
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 05:17 PM

Hi Helen. Nighttime is hard for me as well, when I'm having trouble breathing. It's very lonely in the middle of the night when it seems like you're the only person in the world up. It also tends to exaggerate any problems I'm having. And then the next day is even worse from not having slept.

I've been on an antidepressant for a couple of years now and swear by the relief I feel from demons that tell me things are worse than they are. As a rule, nothing is as hopeless as we think it is. It takes work to maintain a positive attitude in the face of COPD. Still, even on an antidepressant, I will get down, but if I stop myself and really think of the things I still have, rather than the things that I've lost from COPD, my mood will lift.

It really helps to talk about it and I'm very happy that you have said something. We've all been there, feeling hopeless and like no one understands. You're not alone, Helen, and we're here to support you in any way you need. This is a safe place to vent your feelings without any judgement, too. :)





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